|Never quite sure what I'll find in our pantry.|
Aiming high at transforming myself into the kind of mom who doesn't cuss and holler at the top of my lungs in a desperate attempt to get the natives to listen to me and take me seriously is suffering from a delayed start this year. I'm assuming my patience and more acceptable parenting techniques will blossom anew after the kids return to school. Ah, here is where my wiggle room clause kicks in and protects me from a major guilt trip. So I didn't clean up my Irish tempered, potty mouthed, no-where-near-mother-of-the-year habit by January one? I have my reasons. Namely: my kids celebratory 'woo-hoo it's Christmas break!' preceded them through the garage door entrance two weeks ago. And it's not over. By the time Monday rolls around and the grade school variety drag their unaccustomed-to-waking-before-9:00 am asses out of bed, they will have completed an astounding 18 days off of school. The college kid will continue to bask in unemployment, supplied home cooked meals, sleep marathons, and no actual responsibilities for another week. For the next few days-and in some cases for over a week, I will bark reminders that dart guns belong in the basement, inhaling food is a kitchen activity, sleeping in clothes isn't acceptable, Xbox obsessions are unhealthy, tiny Lego landmines are painful, tossing still-folded clean clothes in the laundry room when too lazy to put them away is rude, and leaving a trail of belongings through the house is grounds for an ass kicking.
Since I don't outline a definitive list of resolutions, I arbitrarily add new adjustments to current systems as I go. One such issue that needed a desperate update struck me when I returned home one afternoon. Imagine mounds of dirty dishes - not organized neatly in the sink, but on every available surface, layered with discarded oatmeal packet and granola bar wrappers, partially eaten food, tipped over boxes of cereal, and a loaf of bread left open to encourage staleness. Earlier that morning - well who are we kidding, it was late morning but with the kids on a sleep-late schedule it was early for us- I compiled a grocery list and darted to the store.
In order to shuttle the youngest four to a 1:05 movie, I called home from the store repeatedly. I ordered the movie-going kids to eat a quick lunch and be dressed in coats and shoes. Next I instructed them to meet me on the driveway to help unload the groceries. Laddie was just waking up. He and Eddie didn't want to see a movie. Translation: they planned to enjoy a few hours of uninterrupted video games. Shoving in a few bites of lunch myself, I stuffed a few snacks in my purse to pass to the kids during the movie. I asked Eddie and Laddie to decide who would unload the cold groceries and who would deal with the dirty dishes. Eddie snagged the grocery detail and Laddie made a barely audible grunt signaling his acceptance of loading the dishwasher.
|Start of a kitchen mess, but this is no where near as bad as it gets.|
I informed my offspring that they should be waiting for me when I return from the grocery store. Most of what I buy I can't eat thanks to Celiac disease. Eating is one of their favorite past times. So . . . stand at the door and offer to help in any possible way. I scolded Eddie for not taking it upon himself to unpack more groceries than just the assigned 'cold things.' 'It's time for you to all do things without being told,' I announced. Go the extra mile. Make your mother smile. This attention to the MANY household tasks that take just a few moments when tackled by the small army that coexist in our home might alleviate the blue streak swearing issue I have adopted.
|Ahh, clean dishes . . . I won't unload.|
Coach scoffed at me, as if my new plan would falter and end up down the drain like a half eaten bowl of soggy cereal. Ha, but changing things up isn't like a resolution! My clean slate approach allows me the flexibility to install revisions wherever I see fit.
Now what the _uck happened in the laundry room? It looks like a department store exploded in here. Remember, I'm only going to attempt to clean up my four letter word addiction once the kids are back in school.